EP08: Letting Go of the Need to be Right with Ryan MacFarlane
In this week’s episode, I get candid with Ryan MacFarlane about our unique three-year journey as roommates, revealing how mutual respect was the foundation for success. We dive deep into recovery, with Ryan outlining the three universal anchors: community, a Higher Power, and service. We also explore the complexity of faith, detailing my evolution to a personal spirituality—including a powerful, physical connection that Ryan witnessed.
Ryan opens up about finding serenity in solitude and the work of navigating old patterns of anger and sadness. Finally, we celebrate a life of action: from Ryan chasing dreams like paragliding and his new motorcycle to my emotional first snowboard run, proving the power of embracing the messiness of a full life.
Connect with Ryan:
Instagram: @notsomosh
00:00 Roommates: A DIfferent Kind of Committed Relationship
05:59 The Importance of Community in Recovery
11:03 Spirituality and How It Evolves Over Time
16:13 The Best Thing Ryan Found in Recovery
18:53 Navigating Relationships and Accountability
29:03 Letting Go of the Need to Be Right
35:36 Transforming Relationships with Anger
39:33 Embracing Sadness and Loneliness
42:21 Living Life to the Fullest + Taking Action on Dreams
