EP14: The Unorthodox Recovery | Atheism, Accountability, and the 12-Step Paradigm with Steve Sarin
Is the standard recovery path the only path to a healthy life? Today’s episode features certified recovery coach and digital marketer Steve Sarin, who shares an open, honest perspective, challenging traditional concepts in sobriety to make room for a more flexible, individualized approach. This powerful conversation affirms that all pathways are valid.
We dive into controversial but crucial topics with a welcoming approach. Steve shares his methods for making the 12 Steps work for the militant atheist, explaining how principles like humility and peer accountability can be applied to follow the program without a traditional concept of a Higher Power. We explore why the recovery community must move beyond stigmatizing language like "addict" and "alcoholic," and clarify the vital differences between peer support and professional clinical care.
The conversation moves into personal development, where Steve offers practical advice on setting rigid boundaries with friends and family, and the emotional work required to identify and let go of superficial, substance-based relationships. We conclude with a powerful challenge: look closely at the concepts you are most resistant to, as that is often where your greatest personal breakthrough lies. If you believe your recovery should be flexible, personalized, and open to all options, this episode is a blueprint for creating a resilient foundation that works for you.
Connect with Steve:
Instagram: @stevesarin
00:00 Steve's Journey to Recovery
08:54 The Role of Language in Recovery
15:30 Exploring Non-12 Step Recovery Options
21:06 Navigating Relationships & Setting Boundaries
29:51 Athiesm + the 12-Step Paradigm
31:32 Challenging Traditional Recovery Narratives
36:54 The Role of Control and Trust in Recovery
42:36 Building Self-Trust and Accountability
49:24 Setting Boundaries and Navigating Relationships
54:55 Examining Your Own Resistance for Personal Growth
